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IMDB rating: 6.00 Plot: Nick Lang is a famous actor, well know for his action movies. For the next film he needs the proper motivation and inspiration for his roll. Thus he teams up with the reluctant N.Y. cop John Moss. Not only does he have to put up with Nick who is laborious and out of touch with realities, but he also has to catch a cold-blooded murderer. |
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Actors: Lang Stephen,Woods James,Fox Michael J.,Sciorra Annabella,Comedy,Action,Crime,
What would you do in my situation?
Let me start off with a little back story to explain my situation. My husband is in the military, we met while he was in sub school before he got his first orders. Before he left I ended up getting pregnant but instead of moving across the country right then and there I waited because my husband went on back to back deployments while I was pregnant and shortly after our son was born. Now he knew it was extremely hard for me to move so far away from my family, and wasn’t even sure I would be able to do it at first because I am so close to them and i have always had them around. Well I ended up making the move and he promised me that when he got out in 2 years that we would move back to Mass where my family was. I accepted that and even though I have been miserable where were stationed at now I have made the best of it. Well now my husband is reinlisting because of the econmy and when he first made the dession he said that we would still go back to the east coast so it would be easier on me, but now he is telling everyone we are going to Hawaii! He knows I don’t want to go there for the next 4 years and I tried to explaining why I didn’t want to go but he just doesn’t listen. Since I moved out here to Wa I havn’t really met anyone, we have one car and my husband is constently at work so it doesn’t leave me much time to go out there and meet people. So now that I am pregnant and I have no one to even watch my son when I go into labor it made the whole situation more definite for me. I don’t want to go somewhere where I am not going to know anyone, where I’m not going to have someone that can be there for me and my children in case of an emergancy. Is that selfish of me?
That is not selfish; it’s normal to want friends and people around you who care about you.
Since you love your husband and knew he was in the military when you married, you knew the life you would be entering into. It’s not easy being a military wife.
I suggest making friends. Find a church (test some out until you find a friendly one) or a volunteer group (habitat for humanity, etc.) or a special interests group (flower club, etc) and you will make friends in no time. As long as you are kind to them, I guarantee it.
In the meantime, think of all the cool things you’ll get to experience in Hawaii. The ocean. Tropical beaches. Big, bright flowers. Etc. Have fun! Then, plan vacations to go see your family. It’ll be fun and you’ll make it back home one day.
I really do with you the best.
I know its hard being away from family. I want so much to be near my family, but my husband and I cannot afford to move there right now. We plan to someday.
Christina | Feb 04, 2010
Not selfish at all. Selfish on your hubby’s part. Just move back home where family is. It will be hard on you and your hubby, but at least until you are able to get back on your feet and able to watch after both kids. Maybe get a part time job, and buy your own vehicle when you two do move back it.
MZ. RO | Feb 04, 2010